Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Agreeing to Disagree...

Social media and news networks have been abuzz over the past couple of days with discussions & debates about Aamir Khan’s statement. Facebook, WhatsApp, Twitter and the like have been awash with posts and messages of Aamir haters, some going to the extent of saying “PK = Pack up with Kiran”! People who hero-worshipped Aamir until a couple of days ago have turned down-right haters, some just going with the flow, not even bothering to find out why they are sloganeering against him.

What is it on Aamir’s part that has earned the ire of millions across the country? Aamir made a statement where he said that his wife feels scared to open the newspapers every day and had asked him whether they should leave the country, fearing for the future of their children. No sooner had these words been spoken, media took it upon themselves to give the statement “much needed” publicity by replaying the statement over and over again. And here we are!

Madness, as you know, is a lot like gravity. All you need is a little push.

Media provided that much needed push. Patriots, intellectuals & patriot intellectuals pounced upon Aamir in an instant. While Aamir never mentioned any political party when he said there has been an increasing sense of intolerance, supporters of BJP took to painting it as an anti-Modi, anti-BJP jibe, some channels even running hashtags like #AamirVsModi. The remark was made on how we as a people (people as a mass) are becoming intolerant. A statement which was intended to lead us to introspect took political colours.

Hearing some of the arguments and comments that have been made against Aamir, I felt we are being unfair to him and decided to counter these arguments. Not that Aamir will read this anytime! However, I feel that we as a people need to be sensible and sensitive to things happening around us and I shall try to keep this as non-political as possible.

Argument #1: ‘What insecurity does Aamir Khan feel in this country where his movies are widely watched? As a national icon, his statement tarnishes India’s image, more so because he is the ambassador of the Incredible India campaign.’

Argument #2: ‘His wife made a statement about leaving the country fearing the safety of her kids while the widow of Col. Mahadik said that she would enroll her children into the army to serve the country. A social figure like him has to stay in the country to change the country. Why did they not make such statements when Mumbai was under siege during 26/11 or ’93 or the like?’

Argument #3: ‘Aamir’s movie PK ran successfully in our country because we are tolerant. He wouldn’t dream of doing such a movie in either Pakistan or Bangladesh. The fact that we are debating on this issue shows we are a tolerant nation.’

Argument #4: ‘What were the artists and intellectuals doing when anti-Sikh riots broke out in 1984? Why are they protesting only under the present government?’

The list would go on but for the moment, let us consider these.

The point where those who are hounding Aamir went wrong is by taking the statement at face value. They interpreted it word-to-word, not bothering to understand the depth of the statement. It would be foolish to think that Aamir or his wife actually think of relocating to another country.

The statement that Kiran Rao fears for her kids does not mean that she fears that they might be attacked because of their religion. It indicates a deeper fear of the kind of society that she thinks her kids are growing up into – a society where we no longer agree to disagree; a society where any dissent is suppressed and differences of opinion are not respected. While we need to salute the spirit of Col. Mahadik’s widow, it is not apt to compare the two statements.

Col. Mahadik is a martyr who laid down his life fighting terrorist outfits. Terrorism is an evil that is forced upon the country by external outfits. Aamir’s statements talk of the destruction of the social fabric within the country. While all of us across the country feared for our safety in the wake of 26/11 and the like, loss of social cohesiveness within the country is a cause of alarm. It is only too ridiculous to place the two statements at the same level! 

Arguments about his movie PK are shallow and blinded by a spirit of fanaticism. The movie is not disrespectful towards any religion. It ridicules organized religion and self-proclaimed god men. PK speaks of the futility of blind faith and urges people to rethink the way they wish to seek god.  To label PK as anti-Hindu is amateurish.

Some even stated that Aamir Khan would have been hanged if he had made a movie like PK in Pakistan or Bangladesh (the statement was wrongly attributed to the exiled Bangladeshi author, Taslima Nasreen). There is a huge flaw in the argument. Islam is declared as a state religion in these two countries, making them more-or-less theocratic states whereas India is a democratic state. It is logically not sound to compare the situation in India with the situation in these two countries, whether on the issue of religion or any other issue. We need to look at societies which are more open to differing opinions for comparison.

Aamir Khan’s statement on “increasing intolerance” was made in front of an Indian audience and Indian media, not an international audience. The fact that his statements led to so much of an uproar, with people protesting on the streets, blackening his posters, uninstalling the Snapdeal app (of which he is an ambassador), asking him to leave the country have been counter-productive. They highlight the truth in his statements! It is not his statements but our disproportional reactions which tarnish India’s image.

Aamir’s statements should have, ideally, compelled our leaders to think what triggered such statements. Rather, they chose to equate this with the statements and gestures made by an increasing number of intellectuals and artists, which have been dubbed as “manufactured dissent”. Their moves have been questioned and parallels are drawn with the reactions to the anti-Sikh riots in 1984, which were allegedly organized by the Congress party. One wrong cannot justify another. It is not that there were no reactions or protests against those riots then. It is just that with the advent of media and social media, protests today are more vocal and more visible.

It is important to have a culture of healthy debate and ideological dialogue for a country to move forward. Ideas need to clash with ideas, not bullets or oil-&-ink or protests. We need a country where we agree to disagree; where differing views can coexist without the fear of being chastised or worse, brutalized. We need a country “where the mind is without fear” and “the head is held high”. It is the responsibility of every one of us to work towards a pluralist India. The idea of Hindustan can wait.  

“I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it.”